Very good, you have your defined appointment plan And now we are going to prepare for that first meeting with that person who, a priori, promises. Let's go in parts.
What should I wear on my first date?
The most important thing is to be very clear about what the date is going to consist of: just a dinner; dinner and go out for a drink; a coffee or some beers... since we have to fit our look to the occasion as much as possible.
If we don't know how the other person dresses, we always wonder if we are going to go overboard or fall short. The best strategy here is to take the middle path. Always try to moderate your clothing and go according to your personal tastes, since above all we cannot try to adapt to the tastes of others or lose our essence.
What we want is to be appropriate for the occasion, more confident and try to ensure that the look always works in our favor and not trip ourselves up.
Well, let's focus on the most common appointment options:
How to dress for a dinner
For a dinner, the most important thing is to know if the restaurant is very formal or something more casual. If we don't know, we will focus on an intermediate look.
- Always focus on going comfortable and thinking that you are going to spend at least two hours sitting; For example, do not wear tights that are too tight in your stomach, since sitting down they will crush you and you will need to get up to breathe every now and then, and you will not be able to focus on the conversation.
- If you are from heels, it's your time since a priori you're going to be sitting for quite a while.
- A good look for a dinner would be a little dress, some cute jeans with a shirt and a good necklace, a mini skirt (when I say mini, be careful not to overdo it because when you sit down it's going to put on a belt and that's not the idea) with a casual t-shirt and some cool bracelets... the idea It is to look cute and without going to the extreme of dressing as if you were going out to party, it would be like one point less.
- He make-up Being at night you can intensify it more and you can be less cautious with the base since there is less light if you are one of those who use a dense base, the “cemented” mask effect will not be as great but remember that in makeup we should never go overboard. with the amount. A good look would be smoky eyes with a nude lip, a good red lip with a marked eyeninner without further ado.
- If after dinner we have dancing or drinks...make some small adaptations...try to moderate the heels a little or choose ones that hold well and you can dress up a little more but without going overboard.
How to dress for coffee
Beer/coffee/afternoon date; Here we are going for a less put together look.
- Since the quote is (a priori) more short You can afford some heels too, but it's better to opt for a boot since it takes away the formality of the outfit.
- Some cigarettes With a cool t-shirt and a leather jacket they can be good options, a pair of jeans and a shirt, something in which you feel confident but keeping in mind that it is not a date night and we should be less flashy
- Be careful with makeup, if there is light we have to be careful with extending the base to the neck to avoid the effect.”mask” that the poor person can spend the appointment looking at the edges without realizing it, unify the makeup well and try to choose less dense bases to give a more natural effect.
- It is better to avoid very dark shadows during the day as it gives a very sophisticated effect, more suitable for the night.
Extra trick: Full or empty stomach
A basic recommendation is that before any date you always eat something...even if you have met for dinner, the effect of “eating as if there were no tomorrow” is not very attractive, so to speak, and out of nerves you can attack the food in a way that is not interesting, or even the opposite effect...not being able to eat anything and dying of hunger after the appointment or your guts growl at the door of the restaurant when leaving.
Always put at least a touch-up of lipstick in your bag, carry some gum just in case and if you can put a mini toothbrush or floss It would be perfect. It is not unusual for something to remain clearly visible in the middle of your teeth and for you to not be able to remove it in the bathroom without flossing... giving a clean appearance is always a plus.
Remember that it's about getting to know the person in your life, don't be too superficial. I'll give you an example: if the guy is charming but his shirt has a stain on it, we're sure to get an idea of him based on that disaster of a shirt, but he may be our ideal man but we don't give him the opportunity to get to know him by name. something so avoidable. Focus on the conversation.
These are just little tricks that you can rely on to face a first date, but the important thing is that you always go as calmly as possible because you are worth a lot, with security and a good smile than with those weapons. will not resist you nobody.